first words books for babies

When your baby or toddler is just beginning to talk, first words books can be a great tool for supporting their language development. But not all first words books are created equal—and how you use them matters just as much as which ones you choose.

As pediatric speech language pathologists, we’re big fans of first words books, and we have some tips on how to use them in a way that truly encourages your little one to talk. We’ll also share our top picks for first words books.

what “counts” as a first word?

We talk a lot about first words, but let’s chat about what that actually means.

 First words typically happen around 12 months.⁣⁠ ⁣Parents often underestimate how much their child is saying because they are waiting for it to sound super accurate. But most of the time, kids use a lot of word approximations when they first start to talk. ⁣⁠

FOR A WORD TO “COUNT,” THIS IS WHAT WE LOOK FOR:

✅ The word is used consistently
Your child says it in a specific context or situation—like saying “ba” every time they see a ball.

✅ The word is used intentionally
It wasn’t randomly said and it was said in a context that makes sense

✅ Your child used the word on their own (not just imitating you)
They say “mama” while reaching for you—not just repeating it after you say it.

And remember—first words can include animal sounds, sound effects, and signs, too!

So if your toddler says “woof” for a dog or signs “more” during snack time, those are real words. These early attempts show they’re starting to attach meaning to language, which is a huge step in their communication journey.

Related blog post: What Counts as a First Word?

why first words books are so helpful

Simple picture books that feature real objects, animals, and people help babies and toddlers connect words to the world around them. Repeated exposure to the same images and labels builds vocabulary, understanding, and confidence to try saying new things.

First words books may look simple—but they’re actually packed with opportunities for connection, learning, and language growth.

why first words books are actually helpful (according to research)

First words books aren’t just cute—they’re developmentally smart. Research shows that young children learn language best through rich, frequent interactions with responsive adults (Hoff, 2006; Rowe, 2012). Books that pair simple, familiar vocabulary with clear images give parents a natural way to offer that kind of interaction.

For babies and toddlers, language development starts with hearing words in meaningful, everyday contexts. First words books support this by offering clear images, simple vocabulary, and repetition—all of which are key for helping little ones begin to understand and use words.

Even better? Books slow language down. Unlike the fast pace of everyday conversation, reading gives little ones time to listen, look, and process. It also gives parents a moment to pause and be intentional—whether that’s labeling, pointing, or just chatting about the pictures.

And here’s the human side of it:
Parents often tell us that first words books feel like purchasing a first words book makes them feel like they’re “teaching” their child something. And that’s real! Sitting down together, saying “dog” or “apple” over and over again, seeing your little one smile or babble in return—it’s connection, communication, and confidence-building all at once.

So yes, these books are helpful for language development. But they’re also helpful for something just as important: making parents like you feel connected and part of your child’s growth.

first words books we recommend and why

1. First 100 Words by Priddy Books
Why we like it: real photos, vocabulary by category

This book is a classic for a reason. Real photos make it easier for toddlers to connect the image to real-life objects. It’s organized by categories like food, animals, and clothing, which supports early word learning.

2. Our Big Book of Words by Tabitha Paige
Why we like it: watercolor illustrations, real-life routines

This book’s warm, calming artwork and gentle layout help you connect words to everyday activities—like mealtime and getting dressed. It’s beautifully illustrated and great for modeling language in context.

3. First Words by Bright Baby
Why we like it: minimal photos per page, durable and baby-friendly

Bright backgrounds and real photos pop off the page in this small, sturdy book. We love the color, simplicity, and size! It’s a favorite for babies and young toddlers.

4. Wee Talkers + Pinhole Press Personalized First Words Book
Why we like it: custom photos, real life, real learning

This book is different—because it’s specifically designed to be all about your child’s world. Choose the words and upload the photos yourself, so every page is meaningful. Research shows children learn faster when language is tied to familiar people, routines, and objects.

📘 Create Your Personalized First Words Book →

5. 100 First Words by Edward Underwood
Why we like it: lift-the-flap, built-in pauses for interaction

We love how this first words book is so interactive. The flaps naturally create pauses, encouraging your toddler to respond or react—which is so great for their language development.

Don’t Make It a Quiz—Make It a Conversation

It’s so easy to fall into the habit of pointing at pictures and asking, “What’s this?”—especially when you know your child has said the word before (we get it)!

But for toddlers who are still learning to talk, these kinds of questions can feel a bit like a test.

And when something feels like a test, it can actually take the joy out of learning—and make them less likely to try (which is the opposite of your intentions).

Here’s how we recommend using first words books:

✅ Notice what your child seems interested in and chat about it

 ✅ Make fun gestures and sounds that go with the picture

And here’s what we don’t recommend:

❌ Asking a lot of questions
❌ Repeatedly saying “What’s this?” or “What’s that?”

Learning to talk should feel fun, relaxed, and connected—not like a quiz. By keeping the pressure low and the experience positive, you’ll create an environment where your child wants to communicate.

Why Personalization Makes It Even Better

We’re so excited about our collaboration with Pinhole Press—because this custom board book brings all the benefits of first words books plus the power of personal connection.

Children learn best when they hear words that are directly tied to the people, routines, and items they experience daily. It’s called meaningful input—and it makes language stick. (Suskind et al., 2015; Hoff, 2006)

Looking for more support?

Every child’s communication journey is unique, and we’re here to cheer you on. If you’re looking for more ideas, tips, or book recommendations, our blog is full of simple, practical ways to support your child’s language every day.